EMPOWERING SELF: HAPPINESSS

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"Many times even bullshit can get you to the top but never lets you stay there."

The moment we are born as human beings somehow our lives got complicated ,If we had come as any other creature on this planet life would be very simple -eating ,sleeping, reproducing and dying one day. Now we have to do all those things but after doing all those things we find somehow it's not enough,We want be little more than what we're right now .
If you know only pleasure ,may be little more pleasure ,power little more power ,money little more money.Whatever it may be but everybody is wanting to be little more than what they are right now.The process of desiring is continuously on!!
What is well-being?When do we truly feel well? When you are happy, you are well.Even if you're physically ill, you are still well.So fundamentally well being means a certain level of joyfulness, certain level of exuberance in life.
We are constantly in search for pursuit of happiness: That we want to do so many things to be happy and the freedom to do things.Happiness and every human experience has always been internal ,so happiness is internal but the starter button is outside in the world ,in somebody else hands .
Our experience of life is limited to just- body, mind and emotion.Emotion is just the juicer part of a thought with little drag to it .
When you're constantly thinking and concerned about your security you will not walk full stride of your life .Every step will only be a half of a step, you cannot let yourself go completely into the process of life.In this process we start to question ourselves "What will happen to me?"Till this problem is taken away ,you will never realize the full potential of who you are .Only when we come to this state "nothing can happen to me whatever, whichever life is this is the way I will be".Unless this thought is within you ,you cannot take full steps in your life we tend to take only half step.Because you are so totally lost in your instincts of survival we think everything is within the range of this.I believe if we don't mess with our mind right now to be peaceful and joyful is natural.
Can you just watch the sunset and be joyful?Can you close your eyes and be joyful?Can you think about something and be joyful ?And not think about anything and still be joyful?
We can be joyful by running, singing ,dancing ,drinking alcohol by doing so many things.It all gets you there for a moment ,but never lets you stay there.Create the right kind of chemistry (Joyfulness)within you where to be peaceful and blissful is just natural to you.We are just trying to live by accident ,just hoping everything will be okay.To what extent you are capable of handling it only to that extent ,that depth you will know life is! So the mass of impressions that come in ,you have no discretion about what to take in and what not to take in.Whoever comes your way will stuff something into your head and go .You can't stop it!If you believe in God and if it's not happening your way it must be happening his way.You must be even more happy it's happening god's way but that's not the reality .

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