PASSION Vs LOVE Vs COMMITMENT

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If I am to be fallen into love, I will. And if as a result I will appear to be stupid, disillusioned, and of poor judgment, I will. And I would be damned if I cared what other people think. For I would rather be thought of as all of these things, than not love instead  I will ride the  horse with my head held high. This is my spirit. I am unbreakable.” 
― C. JoyBell C.

Disclaimer: These words are not intended to hurt anyone L

All of us are passionate about one or the other but if we have to choose between these factors It might be difficult to choose between extremely intense feelings because one is temporary phase of complete ecstasy and euphoria . Of course, we all wish it would last forever, but the fact is that it doesn’t. If this did last forever, we would not be able to accomplish anything, or get anything done. We would all be too distracted, and caught up in the other person, and while it does feel good, it’s not always good thing.
No matter how much you argue and yell at each other, deep down you know that you truly love that person, and they love you. You know that you and your partner can make it, and you will work it out.
The new phase for couples is passion without commitment, and it tends to last a few days to a few weeks, and sometimes even months. In this phase, nothing else seems to matter, and everything about that one person is just perfect in your eyes. You don’t care if they are not really perfect either so make a wise decision because it might end up hurting your feelings.
However, when I interviewed people who were in true love from several years (7-8 years) had the commitment, trust towards each other because for them true love  is classified by shared principles and values, respect, honesty, kindness, support, and communication. All of these factors aren’t a necessity for romance and passion, but for true love, they all play a big role.
It feels good to be in love, passion does not last forever. The difference between love and passion is that passion is short lived and true love with commitment is long lived. True love becomes a loving relationship that is sure to pass the test of time, and is a great long term commitment for both of the people involved.
If you ask me what I would choose I‘ll not choose anything, I’ll leave it to almighty J
“Love comes with passion, commitment but passion can go without Love but not commitment. You can love someone passionately but you must not love something if you have passion for that thing”.


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