PERSONALITY: INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL

“Your personality is totally unlike any other personality. It is the sum of total of qualities ,emotions , characteristics, appearances, etc, which distinguish us from all other people on earth”

Our personality cannot be defined in one word, nor with half a dozen words , for it represents the sum total of all one’s characteristics⇆ ,good and bad. This is what distinguishes you from others.

Your clothes form an important part of your personality ; the way you wear them, the harmony of colours you select, etc. You facial expression forms an important part of your personality . Your voice ,its pitch ,tone , volume and the language you use , because they mark you instantly once you have spoken , as a person of refinement or the opposite.

Don’t give the shit importance to external appearance but instead try to study someone through his /her actions, thoughts and values.

A pleasing personality usually may be found in the person who speaks gently and kindly , selecting  refined words that do not offend, in a modest tone of voice; who is unselfish and not only willing , but desirous of serving others without any expectations ; who manages to converse without being drawn into vulgar conversations or useless arguments on such debatable subjects as religion and politics; who sees good and bad in people, but makes due allowance for the latter ; who seeks neither to reform nor to reprimand others; who smiles frequently and deeply; who loves music ; who sympathizes with all who are in trouble and forgives acts of unkindness ; who earnestly strives to be constructive in every thought  and deed indulged in; who encourages others for better achievement in their chosen line of work.

A pleasing personality is something that can be acquired by anyone who has the determination to learn how to negotiate his or her way through life without friction.